World of Warcraft gives you the experience of having power. It teaches you how power ebbs and flows and what to do to maintain your equanimity in the face of the unknown. It helps you understand that you have the power to do and be whatever you want. It is a safe place to learn how you shape your relationships, your abilities, and your life according to your choices. It shows you how the actions of others affect you. It is an environment that mirrors real life in its beauty, its challenges, and its rewards.
World of Warcraft gives you the power to make choices over and over again until you learn what works for you. “But beyond exploring how MMORPGs can shape the identities of individuals, these highly social and structured environments also allow us to explore whether certain valuable skills learned in an MMORPG can transfer to the material world” (Yee, 2006, p. 20). Learning to be an adult and respond effectively can be quite painful without practice. WoW can help us grow up successfully.
Although the field of psychology seems fixated on studying whether video games cause real-life aggression, there are many benefits to playing. Nick Yee asks “Considering that new forms of social identity and social interaction are emerging from these environments, is aggression the only thing worth our attention?” (2006, p. 7)