The influence of parents and schools is a topic about which teachers must be aware.
Here are the Top 10 parent-teacher communication ideas for influencing parents to your way of thinking.
- Show respect for parents' opinions - They're the parents. They're entitled to an opinion about their children's education. Respect it even if you disagree with it.
- If you are wrong, admit it - Admitting you're wrong is a sign of strength. It sets a good example for your students as well.
- Begin in a friendly way - Begin every parent contact with something positive. This establishes the proper mood.
- Get the parent to say "Yes" immediately - This involves questions that can only elicit a positive response. For example, "You really want Billy to do well in school this year?"
- Let the parent do most of the talking - Don't preach. Listen. Sometimes the parent is just worried and needs to know someone is there to help. Often the parent solves the problem without you having to say much of anything.
- Let the parent feel the Idea was hers - If it's your idea it could be wrong. If it's their idea, it's right. This skill involves asking questions and guiding the parent to the solution, followed by praise.
- Try honestly to see things from the parents' point of view - The parent may have a point you have yet to consider. Some of my greatest breakthroughs have come from parent suggestions.
- Be sympathetic with the parents' ideas and desires - Both teachers and parents have the same goal. Listen to parent concerns and put yourself in their position.
- Appeal to nobler motives - Look for the best in students and parents. Phrases such as "I know your son is smarter than his grade shows," or "I think we can all do better" breaks down barriers and walls.
- Dramatize your ideas - Give a vivid description of the benefits of your idea. Don't tell. Show.