To prevent Windows Automatic Updates from automatically downloading and updating, you need to reconfigure Automatic Updates.

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This can be done by going to
Start → Run and typing
sysdm.cpl - alternatively, right-click
My Computer, select
Properties and go to the
Automatic Updates tab.
There are four options that can be chosen:
1. Automatic - this is the default setting for Windows, and can be set to check daily or weekly at a specific time.
2. The second option downloads the updates but gives you a choice of when to install them.
3. Next is a choice to receive notification but leaves control of downloading and installation in your hands. This is the best option, allowing the downloading of the most important, required updates, and one that allows you to monitor what updates are available.
4. Finally, you can switch off Automatic Updates.
By following these steps you can take control of Windows Automatic Updates, cancel them if necessary, and ensure that future updates are kept totally in your control.
There are a couple of things to bear in mind, however.
1. You will need to be logged into your Windows Administrator account in order to successfully disable Automatic Updates and delete the previously downloaded updates.
2. Choosing to disable Automatic Updates completely isn't recommended as you are pretty much opening yourself up to attacks from newer malware and scripts that Automatic Updates would otherwise protect you from. As such consider this option carefully.